Diaper Bags for Dads: What to Look For (and What to Pack)

By The Lumiwee Team3 min read
Navy print diaper messenger bag on a linen armchair with its shoulder strap

Plenty of dads (and plenty of parents in general) want a diaper bag that doesn't look like a diaper bag. The good news is that the features that matter most, like smart pockets, an easy carry and a changing pad, come in all kinds of styles. Here's what to look for.

Pick a style that suits how you carry

A backpack for hands-free days

A backpack keeps both hands free for a baby, a stroller or a toddler who's decided to run. The Swift diaper backpack is water-resistant 900D fabric with seven inside compartments, three insulated bottle pockets, a front phone pocket and a changing mat. It also comes with a detachable pacifier case and straps to hang it on a stroller.

A messenger for quick access

A messenger opens at your side without taking it off. The Lark diaper messenger bag has ten pockets, top handles and a shoulder strap, weighs about 1.2 pounds empty and comes with a changing pad. With 33 prints to choose from, there's something for every taste.

Not sure which is right? See diaper bag vs. diaper backpack.

Features that make the biggest difference

  • Pockets you can find by feel. Wipes and your phone should be reachable without looking.
  • A built-in or included changing pad. Public changing tables aren't always clean.
  • Insulated bottle pockets if you'll be carrying milk.
  • A wipe-clean lining. Spills happen.
  • Stroller straps, but don't overload them. A heavy bag on the handle can tip a stroller.

What to pack for an outing

  • Diapers (one for every two to three hours, plus extras)
  • Wipes and a small tube of diaper cream
  • A changing pad
  • A full change of clothes for the baby
  • Feeding supplies and a burp cloth
  • A small bag for dirty clothes or diapers
  • A snack and water for you

Our full diaper bag checklist covers every age.

Make changing on the go easy

A separate folding changing pad means you don't have to unpack the whole bag for a quick change. The Robin changing pad folds to 11.8 by 7.9 inches, has a wipes pocket and a zip pocket, and straps onto a stroller or bag. Always keep one hand on your baby during changes.

Keep it stocked

The best tip for any parent: restock the bag as soon as you get home. Nobody wants to discover the wipes are empty halfway through a change.

Questions parents ask

Do dads need a separate diaper bag?

Not necessarily. Many families share one bag. Some like having a second bag in each parent's style, so whoever heads out can grab and go.

What's the best diaper bag style for dads?

Whatever you'll actually carry. Backpacks are the most hands-free, messengers the quickest to get into.

What should a dad keep in the diaper bag?

The same as anyone: diapers, wipes, a changing pad, a spare outfit and feeding supplies.

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