Regular visits and sleepovers at the grandparents' house are much easier when a few baby basics live there. Parents pack less, grandparents feel prepared, and nobody has to drive back for a forgotten item. Here's a realistic list, plus a quick safety check.
For sleep
- A safe sleep space, like a crib or play yard that meets current safety standards, with a firm, flat mattress and a fitted sheet
- A couple of sleep sacks in the right size
- Blackout curtains or a way to darken the room
Safe sleep guidance has changed over the years, so it's worth a friendly chat: babies sleep on their backs, in an empty crib, with no pillows, bumpers, blankets or soft toys.
For changing
- A pack of diapers and wipes, plus diaper cream
- A portable changing pad. The Robin changing pad folds small, has a wipes pocket and can be wiped clean after each use.
- A caddy to keep it all together. The Tuck diaper caddy has two carry handles and folds flat when you don't need it.
- A couple of spare outfits
For bath time
- A hooded towel, like the Puddle hooded towel
- A mild baby wash and a washcloth
- For younger babies, a bath support like the Starry bath mat, which is only 1.2 inches thick and hangs up to dry. It's for 0 to 12 months, and baby must always be within arm's reach.
For feeding
- Bottles, if the baby uses them, or a spare set of whatever the parents use
- Bibs, burp cloths and a couple of spoons and bowls for older babies
- A high chair or a booster seat that attaches securely, for babies eating solids
For play
- A play mat or blanket for floor time
- A few board books and simple toys
- For short, supervised play once baby has steady head control, a floor seat. The Mallow floor seat deflates flat, so it's easy to store between visits. Floor use only, never on a sofa, bed or in water.
A quick babyproofing check
Grandparents' homes often aren't set up for crawlers and toddlers. Before a visit:
- Move medicines, including daily pills in handbags and on nightstands, up high and out of sight.
- Lock or move cleaning products under the sink. Adhesive strap locks stick on and come off without damage.
- Cover outlets and move cords out of reach.
- Check for small objects like coins, batteries and pet food at floor level.
- Gate the stairs.
More in our babyproofing checklist.
Questions parents ask
What do grandparents really need for a baby?
A safe sleep space, a changing kit, a few outfits, feeding basics and a babyproofed room.
Should grandparents buy a car seat?
If they drive the baby regularly, a second car seat, installed correctly, saves swapping. Never use a second-hand seat without knowing its history.
How can I help grandparents with safe sleep?
Share current guidance kindly: back to sleep, an empty crib and a firm, flat mattress.
Buying a gift for new grandparents to keep at their house? See our baby shower gift ideas.
