New babies get showered with gifts. New moms, less so. A thoughtful gift for the parent says "I see you too", and it often gets used every single day. Here are ideas that help with the realities of the early months.
For feeding
A nursing pillow
A good nursing pillow saves her back and arms during long feeds. Our nursing pillow buckles around the waist so it stays put, and works for breast or bottle feeds. It's for awake, supervised feeding only.
A light nursing cover
For parents who'd like a little privacy when feeding out, the gauze cotton nursing cover has an adjustable neck strap and an open neckline to see baby. It comes in six soft colors.
For getting out of the house
A diaper bag she'll love carrying
The Lark diaper messenger bag comes in 33 prints, so it can look more like her own style than a baby bag. It has ten pockets, weighs about 1.2 pounds empty and includes a changing pad and shoulder strap.
A pretty pouch for quick trips
The Posy pouch is quilted cotton with embroidered designs, like an olive branch, bears, a bunny or tulips. It holds a couple of diapers and wipes for short outings and clips onto a stroller handle.
For winter walks
A babywearing jacket keeps mom and baby warm together. The Hearth babywearing jacket has a zip-in panel that covers baby in a front carrier, and without the panel it's a regular plush-lined hooded jacket. It's cut as a maternity jacket for pregnancy and the months after. It runs about two sizes small, so order two sizes up.
For night feeds
A soft night light means no bright lamps at 3am. The cordless Glow night light taps on, has a warm-toned glow and three brightness levels, and runs about six hours per charge.
Small luxuries
- A big insulated water bottle with a straw
- A soft robe or cozy socks
- A nice hand cream and lip balm
- One-handed snacks
The gift of time and help
Often the most treasured gifts don't come in a box:
- Dropping off meals, or a meal delivery gift card
- An hour of babysitting so she can shower, nap or go for a walk
- Doing a load of laundry or the dishes when you visit
- A message that says "no need to reply"
Questions parents ask
What do new moms actually want?
Rest, help and a few things that make feeding and getting out easier.
Should I bring a gift for mom or baby?
Both are lovely, but a gift just for mom is often the most appreciated.
What's a good gift for a mom who is breastfeeding?
A nursing pillow, a light nursing cover, a big water bottle and easy snacks.
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